The Art of Doing Things

1. Asking Others to Do Things:
Never start by saying:
"After I finish this, I will give you a reward,"
You should give the reward before the task begins.
2. Before the task is completed:
Don't tell anyone, not even your close friends!
3. Inviting a Leader for a Meal:
Always send a message first and then make a call,
Don't just send a message.
4. Giving Gifts:
Be subtle, don't deliberately say:
"How long I prepared, how much I spent..."
That will reduce the value.
5. Say the unpleasant truth upfront:
Even to your own brother,
It's better to be honest early than leave trouble for later.
6. Stick to Principles:
When discussing rules, never let emotions interfere.
7. When Smoking:
Even if you don't usually smoke, ask first.
8. Visiting Patients:
Don't take photos, don't post on social media.
9. When Giving Gifts:
If someone gives 500, you can't give 600 in return,
That's the rule and must not be broken!
10. Working Part-Time:
Learn to quietly make a fortune,
Save money, control desires,
People are heroes, money is courage,
A brave person without money faces difficulties everywhere.
11. Borrowing a Car:
Even if you only drive 1 kilometer,
When returning, wash the car and fill up the gas.
12. At Banquets:
The first toast must be respectful,
Always toast to the person who benefits you the most.