My childhood friend, who is 38 years old, has never married and spends all his time playing.

He especially loves outdoor camping, fishing, and hiking.
He also bought a motorcycle, riding from Xinjiang to Tibet, from Daxinganling to Hainan.
I said: You're almost 40 years old, you can't keep living this way.
I tried to persuade him: Brother, listen to me, stop messing around, get married soon.
I introduced him to a 35-year-old divorced woman with two sons, with a dowry of only 280,000 yuan.
I also suggested: Take out a loan to buy a house. He took a 30-year mortgage, and also bought a car with a 5-year installment plan.
Now he's married, and his wife has given birth to two sons. Things are looking up.
Now, my brother works during the day and runs a barbecue stall at night.
On weekends, he drives for Didi. Isn't life just getting more and more hopeful?