MarkSu

A secret to winning in every relationship:
Put your feelings first.
Don’t guess why others treat you the way they do, because it’s not something you can control. Instead, be brave and clearly express what feels comfortable or uncomfortable to you, what makes you happy or unhappy.

How to tell if someone had a good childhood?
Just look at whether they are timid, thin-skinned, and insecure, always feeling not good enough.
Being timid comes from being frequently frightened in early years, being thin-skinned comes from being frequently shamed in early years, and being insecure comes from being frequently denied and belittled in early years.
Fear, shame, and insecurity are the three mountains weighing down on a person.

Rebellion is a sign of excellence.
Rebellion represents self-awareness, and the awakening of self-awareness marks the beginning of a person's gradual maturation. Many people want to rebel, but very few actually dare to do so.
Because in traditional environments, in order to maintain order, parents, teachers, and society launch a 360-degree siege against children, students, and youth.
What this order protects is naturally not the young, but the vested interests.
The scale and speed of class mobility permitted by the order are strictly limited, so young people can only rely on their own

The final verdict on cold violence:
My mother always tells me: "Although you are not in great physical shape, I believe your body still has a good foundation; you should have confidence in yourself!"
Her strong argument is: throughout her entire pregnancy, she was beaten by my father, bleeding profusely from her lower body, yet I was not miscarried.

Mean reversion is relative regression. For example, a child born to highly intelligent parents may not be as intelligent as the previous generation, while a child born to low-intelligence parents may surpass them in intelligence. I once saw a statistic: the probability of a child whose parents graduated from 985 universities also getting into a 985 university is less than 20%. Of course, this 20% probability is still very high compared to other groups, but it still falls far short of expectations.