21 Signs of a Person Skilled in Human Nature and Cunning

The 21 Signs of Mastering Human Nature and Cunning:

1、

When you want to refuse someone,

don’t say no directly,

but delay.

Delay until they lose interest,

delay until the golden period of the matter has passed,

let them give up on their own,

which is more dignified than refusing face-to-face.

2、

When collaborating with others,

think first of villains, then of gentlemen.

Put the worst possible outcome on the table,

and include it in the contract.

Once all the ugly words are spoken,

the rest will be smooth sailing.

3、

When you need help from others,

don’t say, “Can you do me a favor?” but say,

"Here’s an opportunity for you to showcase your talent,

would you like to try?"

4、

When faced with others’ questioning,

the most clever response is not explanation,

but a counter-question.

Kick the ball back,

trap them into self-justification.

5、

In a new team,

don’t rush to show yourself,

learn first to act like a fool.

Your clumsiness

will numb everyone’s vigilance,

allowing you to see everyone’s cards in the dark.

6、

If you want someone to follow you wholeheartedly,

don’t just give them money,

give them a new identity and dignity they’ve never had before.

7、

For those who talk behind your back,

all you need to do in public is

smile and say: "I hear you’ve been caring about me lately,

thank you for your effort."

8、

Truly formidable people

never lose their temper easily.

They treat every insult and offense

as energy to be stored up,

and at the most critical moment,

explode it all at once.

9、

To see if someone is worth deep friendship,

don’t look at how good they are to you,

look at whether, after you make a mistake,

they are the first to criticize you,

or the first to help you make up for it.

10、

To gain recognition in a circle,

it’s not about pleasing everyone,

but about winning over the most influential person in that circle,

and having them endorse you.

11、

Start a side hustle when you have time.

Try to earn more money,

today’s society is very realistic,

without money,

it’s hard to move forward.

12、

Give credit to your superiors,

share benefits with subordinates,

keep grievances to yourself.

If you do these three things,

you can stand undefeated anywhere.

13、

Never become a useful person,

but become a valuable person.

Being useful means you can be replaced at any time,

but being valuable means you hold the pricing power.

14、

When faced with others’ requests,

if you don’t want to help,

give them a more troublesome and complex solution.

They will think that although you can’t help,

you are genuinely considerate.

15、

In a group,

deliberately keep some distance from the most powerful person.

This will make you less threatening,

and also make others more willing to approach you.

16、

The most clever praise

is not to compliment their strengths,

but to affirm the effort they put into those strengths.

17、

To completely ruin someone,

it’s not about suppressing them,

but about elevating them to a height they are unworthy of,

then quietly watch them collapse under the pressure.

18、

Speak half,

do half,

this is the best way to keep others curious and respectful of you.

19、

Don’t believe any talk that is about things, not people.

All matters

are ultimately a game of people.

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