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Ability must far surpass stance to avoid doing evil. Sufficient cognitive ability to see the complexity of issues, rather than black and white. Have self-control and reflection skills, not be swayed by emotions, hatred, or group pressure. Possess problem-solving skills, without relying on violence, extreme measures, or moral coercion. Have empathy and imagination to understand “why the other party behaves that way,” not just “the other party is wrong.” Stance determines where you want to go, while ability determines whether you will crush others along the way.

Why is it important to consider the family of your marriage partner? Because love is romantic and fleeting, while maintaining a long-term stable marriage is inherently very difficult. Love can rely on feelings, but marriage involves facing issues like childbirth, finances, caring for elderly parents, children’s education, long-term conflicts, and stress management—at least 90% of these problems are not solved by romance but by the family management skills that a person has been trained in from childhood. Therefore, choosing a marriage partner involves looking at their family, parents, clan, co

Freedom is the independence of the soul, a steadfastness and composure that does not depend on anyone. Awakening personal freedom and wisdom, any authority becomes an obstacle. The true self, over-reliance on external factors can distort, turning the mind into a psychological beggar. If you understand yourself, live according to your nature, and do not deliberately seek change, you will迎来 a brand new transformation.

The most terrifying aspect of Chinese society is that it constantly trains the poor and morally extorts them, which leads to the poor earning money while their time and energy are morally hijacked. The wealthy refuse all moral extortion, rejecting parents, relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues, and various people in society who try to morally extort them. I don't even give people I know the chance to morally extort me—that's what it means to be wealthy. A true wealthy person rarely interacts with others or talks to people, whether online or offline, refusing to have any relationship with

Before great luck, you must pass the emotional hurdle. That is to say, only after truly experiencing a karmic relationship do you have the chance to awaken. So we say, if the heart is not dead, the way will not be born. Moreover, this karmic relationship comes uninvited; you will unknowingly fall into an emotional entanglement and get caught up in it. Even if you know it's unsuitable, has no outcome, and is very painful, you will still find yourself entangled with the other person. However, when your major luck is about to begin, the other party will automatically leave the scene. You won't ev

Market fluctuations are like a "dice," shaking out those who can't wait patiently, leaving behind those who stick to their principles and pick up the gold. Don't treat "breaking even" as the goal; that's an obsession of those who are trapped. True traders only focus on "whether this trade complies with the rules."

For families with children, if the parents don't prepare anything, then the family itself has a problem; being poor is their smallest flaw.

The best state is: not belonging to anyone, nor owning anyone. Live well, enjoy well, reduce expectations, and no longer rely. The road to this journey is high and long, I leave it to myself. Half a lifetime has passed, I have learned to be silent. Always please yourself first; as for others, consider your mood and the relationship!

They say that the threshold for resistance among Chinese people is extremely high. It is not "rebelling when life is hard," but rather "only rebelling when all escape routes disappear." When structural problems cannot be changed, when the economy continues to decline without recovery, and when class contradictions cannot be reconciled. Chinese people exhibit characteristics of high endurance (seeing if they can hold on a little longer), high dispersion (blaming problems on various issues rather than systemic problems), and high risk awareness (very realistic estimates of the consequences of fa

After experiencing a trust collapse, people really become indifferent. There is a concept in psychology called the Baibo Law, which refers to the idea that after experiencing a strong stimulus, a person becomes less concerned when encountering similar situations. When I needed love the most, I was never truly loved deeply, and later, no matter how much love I received, I took it for granted. That feeling is like being in a desert with a shell—without getting a single drop of water. Later, even if someone offers you an entire ocean, you just see it as scenery. People are like that; after experi

Why is the rebellious spirit of Chinese people always concentrated on situations where survival is impossible? For example, in history, most are peasant uprisings after they cannot afford to eat. In fact, it is not that “Chinese people are inherently like this,” but rather a result shaped by long-term structural conditions. Structural factors have shaped the fact that, throughout Chinese history, ordinary people's resistance is often not for “rights upgrades,” but for “survival guarantees.” When “living is impossible” becomes a common state, rebellion will erupt in explosive forms.
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The three most foolish things people do in their lifetime: First, trying to make others understand themselves through communication; second, believing they can understand others; third, when approached by someone unimportant, actually attempting to explain.

The five core abilities that entrepreneurs should master most: First, systemic thinking. What is systemic thinking? Simply put, it’s the ability to see through the underlying structure and logic behind complex phenomena, rather than staying at the surface level. For example, when people hear about conflicts between public figures, most will see it as gossip or entertainment; but those with systemic thinking will analyze further: what interests, power dynamics, and long-term impacts are involved behind the scenes. The core of systemic thinking is not emotional reaction, but understanding “causa

The role of astrology is actually the same as divination. They are not science, but a placebo and a form of positive psychological suggestion. Believing in the favorable descriptions about oneself, divination also provides beneficial content for you. This is called the Barnum effect. Ignoring the descriptions and content that are unfavorable to oneself. Believing that you are good, and the situation will develop in many positive directions. This is called a self-fulfilling prophecy/Pygmalion effect. Worrying that you are not good enough, and becoming anxious every day. This is called a negativ

The two most inconsistent things in the world are: you're busy and broke, yet you're still far ahead.

You better get this straight. Teaching you to be a good person is to train you to become a qualified fool. Teaching you selfless dedication and understanding others is to train you to become a qualified provider. Your kindness will only become a tool for others to harvest from you. Those people will not teach you to love yourself because once you love yourself, the external blood supply channels will be cut off. So, anyone around you who opposes your self-love is a bad person, they are afraid of losing their own source of income.

The others in your eyes are actually yourself. Every judgment you make about others' behavior reflects your internal experience patterns and psychological projections. When you compare others' actions to your expectations, the evaluations that result do not reveal the true nature of the other person, but rather how you perceive the world. Conversely, when others evaluate you, what they say is only a reflection of their own cognition and perspective.

The biggest lie in this world is: you can't do it. Those dismissals, negations, and doubts should not stop us from moving forward. We need to clearly understand our direction, then keep running. We are not afraid of failure, nor of defamation. On our own path, we forge ahead bravely. No matter how many detours your youth has, you can only walk them yourself. Only by passing through that fog can you truly be brave. The future you want is something only you can know how to break free from the shackles. This is something only you can do. Life only happens once. Step boldly toward your goal!

Even if you make mistakes, don't just magnify them blindly. Life is about taking responsibility for yourself. This is my lesson: I will bear the consequences, learn to be forgiving of myself, and if I can't let go and find peace, I will try again. Use new, positive feelings to overwrite unhappy memories. Living might just be about having the courage to start over repeatedly, and in the process, becoming stronger and stronger.

In psychology, when someone faces your questioning, they don't respond with patience and explanation, but with rage and evasion. So, most likely, it's what you guessed—the person, when exposed, will attack the one who exposes them to conceal their own emotions. Therefore, when you question someone and they respond with rage and evasiveness, that's the answer.