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At our age,
you must wear a helmet when riding a bike,
or else you'll be recognized by classmates driving BMWs and Mercedes.

Mild crisis, cash is king
Moderate crisis, gold is king
Severe crisis, guns and cannons are king
Extreme crisis, food is king
No crisis, women are king

Don’t review yourself when you’re at your lowest point.
Even Paul Korchagin, when he was examining himself during a low period, almost pulled out a gun to end his own life.
When a person’s desire to succeed is stronger than their fear of failure,
they won’t be short of the courage to start over.

What kind of behavior from guys makes you instantly feel that he is very polite?
I'll start: when offering cigarettes, give the thicker one to the guy, the thinner one to the girl, and two sticks to pregnant women.
Have you ever encountered such detail-oriented guys?

Going to my brother’s place to have tea, his wife looked at me like I was a scumbag—like I was trash.
That blatant contempt made me realize: I’m ruined in reputation, disgraced beyond repair. And the culprit behind it all is none other than my good brother.
Over these years, my back has been getting more and more bent, because he’s made me carry more and more black pots.
He spent 1790 yuan—it was money I borrowed and didn’t repay.
He drinks alcohol—he’s the one I forced to drink.
He smokes—he’s the one I pushed into smoking.
He moved the passenger seat—so that I could sit there.

Selling at a loss is the norm. You should be happy about it—this shows your stock-picking judgment is on point.
Many people sell their tickets and then hope it will drop; that’s wrong. Once you’ve sold, you should hope it will rise even better—just like breaking up with an ex; you genuinely hope she’ll be doing well.
Only then can trading be active and positive, free from the worry of missing out, and with life moving upward, you’ll get continuous new opportunities—and a new girlfriend.

What is the most impressive financial management for ordinary people?
Actually, it's skipping dinner at night, with a very high annualized return.
Calculating at 20 yuan a day, that's 7,000 yuan a year. You need to have 500k yuan in savings to earn this interest.
If you also quit snacks and milk tea, saving an extra 20 yuan a day, then you are earning the interest on 1 million yuan in savings.
Not only do you make money, but your blood lipids are lower, blood pressure stabilizes, and blood sugar is no longer high.

When you feel extremely frustrated because of something you haven't done yet, go do it immediately. And do it slowly, do it carefully, and do it well.
If you don’t want to air your clothes, then you still need to do it properly. Pull each piece straight, hang each one carefully. If you want to finish your shower quickly without leaving any part unwiped, then wipe inch by inch thoroughly. If you don’t want to deal with the messy chores and messes at work, then handle them one by one and resolve them.
Day after day, in this kind of confrontation, you will grow a calm heart and a patient hear

The core of a strong mindset is: I always have the ability to solve problems.
When facing anyone or anything, never place yourself directly in a subordinate position, treating yourself as merely a passive recipient of events.
Instead, adopt an active mindset: when problems arise, tell yourself that this is a choice I made proactively. I will not avoid it. I can solve it. I am capable of resolving any issue.

Psychology has a concept called mental flow.
It refers to the state when, after a person fully throws themselves into something,
they experience a strong sense of pleasure and fulfillment,
and in the process, they forget how time is passing.
If you feel empty, anxious, or unhappy with life,
go do something that can put you into this kind of state.
It will bring you peace and happiness.

Since I was young, my father taught me:
If you want to run, just go run.
Don't always think about asking someone to accompany you.
When you reach the twentieth time,
like-minded people will find you.
This principle applies to many things.

Three stages of personal growth:
1. Disillusionment with oneself
2. Disillusionment with those in higher positions
3. Re-enchantment with oneself

I have a friend who works as a product manager at a big tech company. He arrived at the office at 8:30 AM. At 9 AM, he noticed chest tightness. By 9:10 AM, his body became rigid and stiff, and he couldn't speak. By 9:30 AM, he was rushed to the hospital, and shortly after arrival, he was pronounced dead from a heart attack. The night before, he had been on a business trip accompanying his boss for drinks and was promised a promotion. Today, seeing Zhang Xuefeng's situation, I couldn't help but reflect. Each of us should understand that our bodies have limits. Many people misinterpret self-disc

# I Recommend Cultivating Your Tolerance for Unresolved Matters Early On
Everyone likely experiences this: constantly feeling anxious about getting immediate results from what you're working on, feeling stressed and frustrated about uncertainty.
For instance, you have a fleeting idea and expect it to be resolved the next second; or you have a preliminary draft of a plan and desperately want team members to immediately confirm and take action right away.
But reality often shows up differently—you're frantic while others take their time, and the matter just hangs there in limbo, leaving you with