Is there a way in psychology to quickly change a person? When you make the other person feel that you don't want to change them, true change begins to happen. This is not a technique; it's a shift in stance. From "you're wrong, I want to make you right" to "I see you, I'm here with you." They finally no longer need to spend energy resisting you, but can start to direct that energy toward self-awareness. At this moment, they feel love. Only when a person feels loved can genuine transformation occur. However, when someone perceives your intention to change them, their psychological defenses will instantly activate, like a suddenly closing door. If you truly see and accept their current state, that door will quietly open a crack. So, the secret to change is not about persuasion, but about feeling.