Marriage is not the grave of love

Marriage is a walled city
Going in and coming out, coming out and going in
The opposition between men and women at the macro level
is irreconcilable
My understanding is
that solutions can only be found at the micro level
So finding someone willing to be a suitable partner
without obvious red flags
is impossible to find a perfect person
nor does such a person exist
In work and life, it's all compromise and concession
let alone marriage
Striving together to live a little longer
to see a more distant future