When asking others for something, you need to do it yourself first.

For example, if you want your partner to be loyal to you,
you should first ask yourself if you are loyal to them.
If you want friends to be generous to you,
you should first ask yourself if you are a generous person.
If you want your family to understand you,
you should first ask yourself if you have understood your family.
Being a good person is not just about always asking and demanding, but about self-reflection.